Becoming Sexy Brilliant | Devina Kaur

Close your eyes. Now think of your family. Your Mom, Your Dad, Your Aunts and Uncles, Grandparents and Great Grandparents. See them in your mind’s eye all in a room looking at you. They are studying every move and action you make. You feel their judging eyes on you all the time. They say they love the way you are but change. They love your uniqueness but conform. They love how you speak your mind but you’re too loud. They love your ambitious drive but don’t be such a go getter. Then to top it all off this royal court brings you the person of THEIR dreams for you to marry and spend the rest of your life with. I know what you’re thinking; my crazy Aunt and Great Grandpa are not going to pick the person I marry and anyways does this even happen in the 21st Century. Surprisingly, arranged marriages are more common than you may think. So do they work? Is that actually a better way than what we currently do? We have answers to these questions in this podcast.

On today’s show we interview Devina Kaur to explore her journey from her traditional upbringing in rural India to her self-discovery that lead her to start the Sexy Brilliant Global Revolution. Devina explains how she spent thirty years trying to be the person everyone else wanted but it only resulted in loneliness, depression and confusion. She provides us with an insight most people have never heard about an arranged marriage and how it affected her. Devina has a unique point of view on marriage and dating which she shares in her online courses like the one coming out on February 25, 2019 called “The Power of Being Single.” Growing up in an environment that told Devina she was not good enough in a direct or indirect way made it difficult for her to love the most important person in her life….herself. We can all learn from how Devina uncovered her true self, true meaning and true love so we can all be Sexy Brilliant.

www.sexybrilliant.com

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The Bachelor Colton | Finally Some Drama Ep3

Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor. Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise? Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast. If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious.

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Whine With Wine | Raw & Unfiltered "GIRL TALK" Ep 10

Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!

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The Bachelor Colton | Girls Getting Catty Ep2

Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor. Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise? Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast. If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious.

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Men Always Want Sex....Right!? | Sarah Hunter Murray, Ph.D.

Benjamin Franklin famously stated, “In this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.” That was true in 1789 when he wrote it and it’s still true today. There may be another absolute certainty that even the horn dog himself Uncle Benny would agree with and that’s that men are always in the mood for sex. We all know that Mr. Franklin was at least a little Randy…..no no no I take that back he was extraordinarily Randy all the time. Does anyone really know what he was up to when he was spending all that time in France? I mean come on now….didn’t France invent the French Kiss and Ménage à trios? For a man like Franklin this must have been heaven on earth especially compared with the puritanical Colonial America of the 1770s. So it’s clear to everyone that old Uncle Benny should’ve said, “The only thing certain in this world is death, taxes and men are always in the mood for sex.” That would’ve been 100% accurate and let’s be honest this would’ve made his quote even more famous. But is that really correct about men always being in the mood? Some say NO!

Our guest today Sarah Hunter Murray, PhD, challenges this notion that men’s unwaveringly high sexual desire is simply a long-held myth that is actually causing relationships needless suffering in her latest book coming out February 12th “Not Always in the Mood: The New Science of Men, Sex, and Relationships”. WHAT….Men are NOT always in the mood for sex? What is she talking about that’s crazy!! Or is it? Sarah has the research and the big PhD brain to back her statement up. For over a decade, she has dedicated her career to examining the nuances of sexuality as they affect modern relationships. Sarah is a regularly sought-after sex and relationship expert for media outlets including Men’s Health, Fashion Magazine,Elle and Today’s Parent. Her research has been featured in LiveScience, Mic.com, Jezebel, and The Globe and Mail. She authors the blog “Myths of Desire: Rethinking Sex Roles and Expectations that Stifle Relationships” for Psychology Today. As a practicing relationship therapist, she specializes in working with individuals and couples around sexual intimacy concerns. Ok Ok….She has the street cred and social proof from credible media outlets to make a bold statement but let’s listen to her in this awesome interview explain exactly what she means.

Men are not always in the mood….what’s she talking about? Let’s find out together!

www.sarahhuntermurray.com

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Science of Sex | Nicole Prause Ph.D.

Where do we stand as a society on actual scientific research on sexuality? There are three key moments in history that mark genuine milestones in the scientific research of sexuality. First was in 1947, when Alfred Kinsey founded the institute for Sex Research at Indiana University provoking controversy at the time. He is best known for the Kinsey scale which rates ones sexual orientation. The second was in 1957, when William Masters and Virginia Johnson pioneered research into the nature of human sexual response and diagnosis and treatment of sexual disorders and dysfunctions. They recorded some of the first laboratory data on the anatomy and physiology of human sexual response based on direct observation of 382 women and 312 men in what is estimated to be "10,000 complete cycles of sexual response". Their findings on the nature of female sexual arousal and orgasms dispelled many long-standing misconceptions. The third was in 2015, when Nicole Prause Ph.D. founded Liberos a sexual biotechnology company that researches sexual psychophysiology and affective neuroscience using state of the art technology. They study sexual addictions, orgasm physiology and biosignal processing. They measure brainwaves during sex using sophisticated headgear with wires going everywhere and measure contractions in both men and women during orgasms utilizing anal probes. I know what you’re thinking right now….who else uses anal probes?….Aliens…..and aliens have spaceships…..and spaceships are cool. So Nicole Prause must be cool…..and you would be right….she’s SUPER cool.

On our show today, we interview Nicole Prause, Ph.D. (aka Orgasm Warrior) a neuroscientist that founded Liberos, LLC to research human sexual behavior, addiction and the physiology of sexual response. Dr. Prause earned her doctorate at Indiana University with joint supervision by the Kinsey Institude for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction. She was lead author on a study that was the first to apply brain stimulation to alter sexual responsiveness. She also conducted an exceedingly thorough study on women’s preference on penis size. That got your attention. That’s right boys….she knows what women really want in a man….if you know what I mean. Dr. Prause is on the cutting edge of sexual research and asking important questions that have never been asked before. You are going to love this interview with the “Orgasm Warrior” herself, as we explore the science of sex.

www.liberoscenter.com

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Scientifically Proven Dating Advice for Single Parents | Dr. Duana Welch

What in this world is more difficult than dating? Finding the right person to share your life with is a challenge for anyone no matter how beautiful, rich or talented you are. As Wes Hayden so romantically sang to Jillian Harris on The Bachelorette in 2009 and then the following year on Bachelor Pad to Gia Allemand “Some say Love It Don’t Come Easy”. Of course, he proclaimed to both of these women that he wrote this exact same song for them….UGH….WHAT a sleaze ball. Needless to say, he was not there for the right reason….but I digress. Back to my question….so what’s more difficult than dating? Is it math or quantum physics or maybe it’s figuring out the meaning of life? All of those things are nothing compared to what the real answer is. Are you ready for the answer…..it’s dating as a single parent. I can hear everyone right now saying….that’s right Terah! Dating is tough enough but dating as a single parent is even more difficult. Who wants to waste time away from your kids to go on another bad date that will end up going nowhere? Also it’s one thing if your own heart gets broken but no one wants to destroy your kid’s hearts with a relationship that they were invested in as well. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to read a book that would help single parents and those dating them with scientifically sound advice to help them? Hell YES it would!!

Our guest today Duana Welch, PhD just released her second book in the “Love Factually” series- for single parents. We interviewed Duana for her first book, “Love Factually, 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do”, and it’s our most downloaded episode. We titled that podcast “Scientifically Proven Steps To Love”. So check it out that show after you listen to this one. Duana’s latest book “Love Factually For Single Parents & Those Dating Them” provides single parents with the first guide that relies on science instead of opinion to help this large and growing group of men and women find the right partner not only for themselves, but their families. From getting over your ex to finding time to date, and from finding your partner to blending families, the Single Parents edition of this popular series of books paves the way so we all win at lifetime love. Get comfortable and let’s soak in as much wisdom as we can from Dr. Duana Welch before we all jump onto Amazon and buy her latest “Love Factually” book.

http://lovefactually.co/

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The Bachelor Colton | Meeting 30 Women & First Dates Ep1

Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor.  Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise?  Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast.  If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious. 

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Whine With Wine | Raw & Unfiltered "GIRL TALK" Ep 9

Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!

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How Better Sex = More Money | Sex With Dr. Jess

Imagine if you will….making the decision to increase your company’s bottom line by improving your employee’s sex life. That’s right....when your employees or co-workers are having a better sex life their relationships at home will be more fulfilled which will in turn create stronger relationships with their co-workers making them more productive at work. This is why companies from around the world are hiring Sexologists to have multiple day retreats to reignite the passion many of their employees have unfortunately lost at home. This loss of passion usually comes down to stories we write in our heads of the sabotage or ill will our partners are doing to us when they are not. We feel something that is not so and then react in negative ways that are not productive to a healthy relationship. Most of this can be solved with simple techniques to help people understand how to communicate more proactive and not reactive.

Our guest today, Jessica O’Reilly (aka Dr. Jess) is a sexologist that travels around the world working with couples to transform their relationships via her wildly successful “Marriage As A Business” program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Dr. Jess is an accomplished author with three best-selling titles. Her latest, “The New Sex Bible” has received enthusiastic reviews from professionals and clients alike and her first book “Hot Sex Tips, Tricks and Licks” is in its fourth print! She hosts a popular podcast with her husband, Brandon, called Sex With Dr. Jess Podcast that has tons of great topics covered on it like “Single Girl Problems”, “How to be Happy After 51 Years of Marriage”, “Online Infidelity” and much more. She has been featured in pretty much every magazine in the world like Women’s Health, Men’s Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, MAXIM, New York Post, Redbook, Playboy, US Weekly, Elle, Reader’s Digest, HuffPost, Sexy Brilliant….WOW…I’m not even halfway through her list of magazines and I’m worn out but you get the idea. She has also been on a ridiculous amount of TV shows, radio broadcasts and of course excellent podcasts like this one…thank you for listening. Needless to say she knows what she’s talking about and is highly respected in the field of SEX. So sit back and enjoy this fantastic interview with Dr. Jess as we all learn more about how to have a better sex life!

www.sexwithdrjess.com

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"Friend Zone" to "End Zone" | Marni The Wing Girl

Are you single and confused by women? Would you like a guided tour into the mysterious mind of a woman? If you are ready to get out of the “Friend Zone” and into the “End Zone”, we have the podcast for you. Many men spend their entire lives in a fog when it comes to women. They don’t understand how to approach them, pick up on the subtle hints, how to turn them on, how to compliment them; in a nutshell they don’t know what woman really want. Some guys will get frustrated with this and give up. They’ll think that women just want jerks or assholes that treat them like crap or it’s just money they want. Other guys will see woman as a challenge that can be understood with hard work. They’ll see woman as a great adventure like climbing an epic mountain like Mount Everest. Just as you would never climb a dangerous mountain like Mount Everest without an expert guide to help you avoid the major pitfalls and sharp cliffs, a wise man challenging himself to understand women better will also find an expert guide to help avoid the pain and time wasted on unsuccessful dating. If you are the type of man that is ready to step up your game with No-BS dating advice, then sit tight, turn up your volume and get ready to change your dating life.

On today’s show we have Marni Kinrys (aka “Wing Girl”). She is a female dating coach for men that has spent the last decade helping tens of thousands of men go from the “Friend Zone” to the “End Zone”. She has one simple mission…give the good guy the edge. She teaches men everything they need to know about woman especially the important stuff that other women would never want you to know. She created The Wing Girl Method to give men access to the 5% of knowledge that attracts women which no man can ever teach you. How does she know this? One reason is she interviewed 1,000s of woman on what they want and as luck would have it….she is a woman with a vagina. Which would you rather have on your side, another clueless man stumbling around in the dark or a woman with a very bright flashlight leading you every step of the way? I think it’s obvious! She can teach you everything you need to know to attract, date and get any girl you want. What guy doesn’t want that? Hell I am a woman and I want to learn more. Let’s all gain more knowledge from the Wing Girl herself, Marni Kinrys, in this amazing interview.

www.winggirlmethod.com

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Mr. Persuasion Unleashes Your Superpower | Jeff Tippett

Imagine creating a world where all of your dreams came true simply because you opened your mouth. Want a powerful promotion at work, new high paying job, date the most beautifully interesting person you have ever met; merely open your mouth and let the world bend to your will. What if you could have absolute control over the outcome of your life? Would you run towards this power as fast as a cheetah or hide in your protected safe shell like a turtle? If you are the type of person that wants more control of your life, then you’re in luck because we have what you desire. However, I must caution you that this secret superpower does come with a warning. It has been known to be used for evil, causing harm to innocent people. So as Spider-Man was told by his Uncle Ben, “With great power comes great responsibility.” If you can’t handle a power strong enough to thoroughly transform your life into what you want it to be, then you are listening to the wrong podcast. The last thing we want is to provide you with a power you are not ready to embrace. If you are prepared to make this superpower a positive part of your life, you are going to love this interview.

Our guest today, Jeff Tippett (aka Mr. Persuasion), is the author of “Unleashing Your Superpower: Why Persuasive Communication is the Only Force You Will Ever Need”. Jeff is a persuasive communications expert that helps people increase their effectiveness in the art of persuasion. Brands such as Airbnb, The National Restaurant Association, The League of Women Voters, and The League of Conservation have trusted Jeff to develop and implement communications plans to persuade elected officials, the media, and the general public. Jeff has impacted thousands of lives through over 500 presentations including keynotes and seminars. We are so confident in Mr. Persuasion that we are willing to offer you a money back guarantee. If you don’t learn something that improves your powers of persuasion, we will gladly give you back all the money you spent on this podcast plus you will receive a FREE view of our stunning website www.makemorelovenotwar.com. We are the only podcast brave enough to offer this amazing guarantee! All joking aside…you are going to benefit immensely from Mr. Persuasion himself, Jeff Tippett, as he unleashes your superpower right now.

https://jefftippett.com/

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Four Pillars to Be Happy, Joyful and Free | Amy Chuang

How does one forgive someone that hurt them when they were vulnerable, too young or too weak to fight back? It may feel as if the world is conspiring against you for some strange reason. The pain from this can run so deep that it almost becomes as badge of honor or trophy that feeds your ego with a well earned hatred for this person and what they did to you for years. This hatred can build up for so long that you begin to make it part of you and wonder what it will mean to let it go. You may wonder, “I’m just a victim that allows others to push me around? Am I weak? How can anyone ever love someone like me?” Some people hold on to this victim mentality because they feel this makes the person that hurt them forever lower than them because they now owe them. Therefore, if they forgive they will forever be foregoing what they are owed. In this episode we explore the four pillars that will help you forgive others and yourself to bring you true happiness, joyfulness and freedom to live a better life.

Our guest today, Amy Chuang was born in China and moved to America when she was a teenager which gives her a unique perspective on both Eastern and Western cultures. She has studied many different religions and philosophies which has lead her to the conclusion that they all come down to four pillars; Compassion, Forgiveness, Love and Gratitude. In this podcast, Amy goes into great detail on how you can employ these four pillars in your life to not only forgive but find true freedom from people that have harmed you. The four pillars create the right mental state so you can have a foundation of self-healing that will help you love yourself completely. You will be ready to cut the anchors that have been holding you in your desolate place for so many years. You may need to listen to this podcast more than once because it packed full of powerful wisdom. If you know someone that could benefit from this, be the friend that extends a helping hand and share this podcast. Amy’s advice will sink into your soul making it shine brighter than it ever has before.

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Thank God For Sex Toys | Tracey Cox

Every generation thinks they invented sex and of course everyone is a natural born sex expert. No reason to bother learning anything else about sex because you got this covered. As a matter of fact, this podcast is full of valuable information on hot sex that will be a complete waste of time for an expert such as yourself. Therefore, I suggest turning this podcast off right now. Don’t burden your ears and mind with knowledge on sexual myths, the good and bad influence of porn, and learn about the process of creating sex toys that actually rock your world. I’m sure there is someone on the planet that would like this information but it’s too bad for us that it’s not you. So please turn this podcast off right now. We’ll wait for you to stop it.

Are you still here? Well….obviously you are curious to see what other people don’t know about hot earth shaking sex; those poor poor souls. Maybe one of your friends is one of those unfortunate characters and you just want to see if you can find something to help them. You’re such a good friend to take time out of your day to learn something new about amazing sex for someone else. What a giver you truly are!!

Our guest today, Tracey Cox is known to many as a true Sexpert, but she would not call herself a Sexpert because she says that she is still learning about sex. This is even after writing 16 Sex and Relationship books including the bestseller “Hot Sex: How to Do it”, being an Associate Editor for Cosmopolitan magazine, hosting TV series about sex in the UK and US, appearing on Oprah, CNN and The Today Show, writing a weekly column about sex for the world’s largest English speaking new website, MailOnline, has her own blog on sex, life and love, and has a signature line of sex toys she designed on the world’s most popular sex toy retailer, Lovehoney. If Tracey Cox is still learning about sex, we all need to step up our game. She is a wealth of knowledge and has a great personality. You are going to love this interview with her as we explore the crazy world in the bedroom and how we can all have hotter sex.

www.traceycox.com

www.lovehoney.com

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Whine With Wine | Raw & Unfiltered "GIRL TALK" Ep 8

Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!

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The Danger of Perfection | Andrea Johnson, LPC

It’s easy to look at someone else and think…Man, they must have it easy because they are beautiful, rich, smart, well connected with tons of privileges that I don’t have. They must be happy all the time as they skip through their magical life while I grind out every single inch as I push my boulder up a very steep rock mountain like Sisyphus. It may even be impossible to see the struggles others have especially in this artificial, only show my best social media world. There are people that make decisions on what they are going to do over the weekend based on whether it will create stunning social media pictures to put up on their InstaBrag page. They may not even enjoy the activity but if it makes others jealous then it’s a win. With all of this pressure to always be someone else creating content for our media company called Ego Incorporated, we can lose touch of the human struggles everyone has.

Our guest today, Andrea Johnson is a Licensed Professional Counselor that many would look at and say she has it all. She’s beautiful, smart, comes from a wealthy family but she was very depressed and suicidal when she was in her 20s. On paper she had it all which actually made her feel even worse because she felt like she did not suffer enough to feel depressed. In reality, she was going through a different kind of suffering then someone that is oppressed or grows up so poor that they are unsure if they will even eat each day. Her depression came from holding up the impossible standard of PERFECTION. She could not stumble for even a second. Being trapped in a world of perfection is like walking across a field full of landmines where you know you will step on one but you don’t know when. Each step is full of fear and deep anxiety wondering if this will be the step that destroys your perfect world. This pressure can become overwhelming driving people to take their own lives to avoid being found out that they are not perfect when they inevitably step on one of those explosive landmines. Luckily Andrea turned this negative pressure to be perfect into something positive. In this interview, you will hear about her struggles and how she made it through her mine field to become an inspiration for many.

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Sexual Fetish Advice Expert | Liz LaPoint

Sexual fetishes play a major role in many people’s lives but for some people they make no sense. I’m sure many of you have heard of one of the most popular fetishes, the infamous foot fetish. If you are not into feet, this may sound like the craziest thing in the world. Why would someone get off looking at a girl’s sweaty dirty feet? This just sounds like the most bizarre behavior to some people. If you think that is unusual, how about microphilia and macrophilia. What’s that you ask? These are fetishes where people fantasize about being either really small like a toy doll or really big like a giant. I bet you didn’t see that one coming. Some fetishes don’t even have a name but people will commission custom porn companies to create these fantasies. In the book “The Butterfly Effect” by Jon Ronson, he talks to custom porn producers and actresses about films they made for customers. One was a Wonder Woman and Gremlin film where the Gremlin makes Wonder Woman do certain things and has complete control over her. It’s all about keeping Wonder Woman there and making her do things. In one of the scenes, Wonder Woman is lying on the sofa in a bikini and then she decides to leave the house but just then a tiny Gremlin hits her on the back of her head. Wonder Woman is stunned and stays put. Then the Gremlin hypnotizes her and Wonder Woman gets tied up. You may be thinking….how in the world is this a turn on and why would someone pay 10s of 1,000s of dollars to create a film like this. Jon Ronson was curious as well so he contacted the individual. The answer the man provided is a great insight into what can create a fetish. The man said that his Mom left when he was five years old and he only has two memories of her at all. My younger brother and I setting on her suitcase in a closet trying to keep her from picking it up and shortly after being in a neighbor’s front yard with my neighbor’s Mom watching my Mother walk up the street with the suitcase in her hands. WOW….sitting on her suitcase to try to stop his Mom from leaving. How powerful is that? Now hearing about his custom video about a Gremlin hitting Wonder Woman over the head to make her stay doesn’t sound so strange. That is why it’s important to always come from a place of curiosity and not judgment.

Our guest today, Liz LaPoint has an amazing blog and YouTube Channel called The Naked Advice With Liz LaPoint and a fun podcast called CinaMarried that she hosts with her husband. The Naked Advice is a place where Liz will answer questions about dating, sex and relationships. Being a place for people to ask questions on sex it was only a matter of time before questions on sexual fetishes started rolling in. As they did, Liz would give each and every fetish an honest no judgment answer. Word spread about The Naked Advice and she became the go to person to ask advice on fetishes. Liz believes in being sex positive and developing healthy boundaries and attitudes, and that women can embrace their sexuality while also being intelligent and educated. She has posed nude for art and professional modeling that fulfilled artistic endeavor for her. Woo Hoo NAKED TIME!!.....but I digress! Seriously, Liz LaPoint is more than an outstanding resource for advice she is a lot of fun with a great sense of humor and you’ll enjoy getting to know her in this awesome interview.

https://thenakedadvice.wordpress.com/

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“Becoming Cliterate” For All | Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.

In our last podcast titled “Real Men Know She Comes First with Ian Kerner”, Ian explained to us the importance of using oral sex to fully please a woman. He calls it “Core Play” because that’s what brings the most pleasure to women. He also created the word “Cliteracy” and tells men that there are no more excuses for being “Ill-cliterate” with women. Ian Kerner says “Down with ill-cliteracy! The tongue is mightier than the sword! Think outside HER box! Viva la Vulva!” His book “She Comes First” is mainly targeted at helping men understand women’s sexual needs better and gives a step by step guide to blow a woman’s mind in the bedroom. As awesome as Ian Kerner’s book is at helping men, it is only half the battle. Women need to know their bodies better and what brings them pleasure.

Our guest today, Laurie Mintz wrote the book “Becoming Cliterate Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How To Get it”. In this amazing book, Laurie guides women in exploring their bodies to understand what they like so they can express that desire to their partners to bring them maximum pleasure. Her mission is to close the “Orgasm Gap” that has been affecting women for centuries. This notion that sex is for the man’s pleasure and it’s a woman’s duty to satisfy men is so 1950s. Today’s women need to grab their orgasms by the horns and ride that pleasure beast like the world champion bull rider “Lane Frost”. It’s time to take matters into your own hands…literally…and know thy self or at least know thy vulva. If you don’t know how your vulva brings you pleasure, stop expecting your man to be some kind of Magellan that goes on a lifelong expedition to find your O-face. You need to figure it out and then provide the pleasure map to your partner. Laurie Mintz lays this out perfectly in her bestselling book “Becoming Cliterate” and this is a must read for anyone that was lucky enough to be born with a clit, the greatest pleasure generator ever designed. I know everyone wants to jump online and order “Becoming Cliterate” and get down to business, but before you do that listen to this amazing interview with Laurie Mintz right now.

Website: http://drlauriemintz.com/

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Real Men Know “She Comes First” | Ian Kerner, Ph.D.

In the world of psychology, there are people that push the boundary of knowledge that transcend our understanding of the human experience to a new level. People like Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, John and Julie Gottman and Abraham Maslow have been able to capture a behavior humans unconsciously do and articulate it into a theory that allows us all to evolve past the emotions that are steering our lives into destructive situations. Sometimes their theories are so clear that they can be put into a few words. I’m sure everyone has heard the term “Freudian Slip” which is an error in speech due to the interference of an unconscious train of thought or “Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs” is about meeting a need like eating, shelter, safety before you can move up to self-fulfillment needs that include creative activities like painting. There are few people that have this kind of impact on the world of psychology that they are a must to know and learn from.

On today’s show, we have one of these amazing people in the world of psychology, Ian Kerner, Ph.D. Ian has probably been responsible for more female orgasms than any other man on the planet and I’m talking real not the fake ones. Ian Kerner is the author of the New York Times bestselling book “She Comes First, The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman”. Like the term “Freudian Slip” Ian Kerner has coined his own terms “Cliterate, Ill-Cliterate and Core Play”. This book is a must and I mean absolute must read for all men that truly want to please their women and have them begging you for more. Who doesn’t want that? There is no reason for any man to hide behind the excuse of not knowing how to please your woman completely. The facts are all in “She Comes First” in a complete guide. If you are a woman, get this book for your man now. If you are a man that has not read this book yet, order it online right now and blow your woman’s mind with your new skills. You can also get the audiobook on Audible and listen to it on your drive to work instead of the radio DJ that will teach you nothing about blowing your woman’s mind….no excuses guys! Before you go buy “She Comes First” listen to the author himself, Ian Kerner, in this awesome interview.

Website: https://www.iankerner.com/

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Whine With Wine | Unfiltered "GIRL TALK" Ep 7

Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!

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